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Homosexual Questions Uncovered
In this video, members of the P4CM EX-Homosexual Ministry answer the top questions asked by those in the gay community or curious about its lifestyle. Questions including:
- Why should I even trust the bible in the first place?
- Why would God judge me if I was born this way? Or why would he judge me if molestation led me to being gay?
- Does God hate homosexuals?
- How does God feel about gay marriage?
- How does God feel about gay adoption?
- Is there such a thing as a gay Christian?
- How do we know that God actually judge Sodom and Gomorrah - cities that were known for their homosexual behavior.
- How do I change?
- Can I still be friends with my ex?
- Am I really delivered if the temptations keep coming back?
This is just a few of the questions. Listen as Larrell (25), Bryn (35), Randy (23), Nyasha (26), Kayla (19), and Jackie (19) uncover the questions most asked by the gay community.
Bonus Video: How to Witness to a Homosexual
Other EX Testimony Videos
Click here to watch the EX-Fornicator video
Click here to watch the EX-Bisexual video
Click here to watch the EX-Masturbator video
Click here to watch the EX-Porn Addict video
Click here to watch the EX-Abortionist video (Men)
Click here to watch the EX-Abortionist video (Female)
Click here to watch the EX-Slave to Fear video






awesome.
i'm sincerely showing my love and support and feel so blessed by your ministry and highly motivated to get involved this was my life for many many years and i think its time i move outta my comfort zone and give God Glory for all he is doing and has done in my life. i have a heart for my generation and for my sisters and brothers in christ who are still in the bondage i was in...im praying on it and letting God lead me but God Bless you all sooo much.
To Being Lights of Christ
First giving thanks to God who sent his Son to pay for my sins. I pray that he would continue to bless your ministry all in all. It is an honor to see young people like myself seeking holiness and fullness in Christ. I have recently announced my calling to preach the gospel of Christ. It is very difficult to face men and women in the church (especially in the South) and preach of such matters. I have had similar experiences in life( homosexuality and being molested at an early age) and have been redeemed through "The Blood".
Just pray for me and my ministry as I pray continually for yours Brothers and Sisters. May the Lord keep us bound in His mecy and grace.
With sincerety,
Matthew Talley
Great Video
I want to thank you all for being willing to talk about your personal struggles with homosexuality because it's something very much needed in ministry today. I will continue to pray for your ministry and that the eyes of many will be opened to the truth that is presented here through love. This is a very difficult topic to talk about (as well as most sexual sins) so thank you for obeying God's will in this manner instead of walking in fear. Much love and God bless.
Grace and Peace,
Gabriel Williams
What a blessing!
Seriously, this is great! I thank the Lord for what He is doing through you guys' lives. The Bible verses and the answers to the questions are just tight! These are testimonies that show and demonstrate the power, strength, and might of our Lord, only the blood of Christ can do this. Words cannot express, I am in awe of Him. How great is our God! Keep on sharing your testimonies so lives can continue to be changed. I love you guys.
Wow, thank you all for
Wow, thank you all for making this video. I have watched almost every ex-homosexual video you have posted! They have been a great encouragment to me. Within the last two years I have been called out of a lifestyle that was leading me to destruction, I have decided to follow Jesus with all my heart and with all my life... needless to say, I have changed alot! I am 19 now and have lived with my mother most of my life. She entered into a homosexual relationship when I was 11/12 and continued in it until she decided to move out last year. She now works at a major LGBTQ (lesbian/gay/bisexual/transexual/queer) Community center in New York and has recently entered into a new homosexual relationship with a women that looks like a man. I have experianced much of the pain felt by children stuck in homosexual families. It was extremly painful for me to grow up without a "mother" and with out a family (I am an only child and didn't have a relationship with my father). I have often felt like my "mother" was simply "the woman whom I've always lived with", she has been unable to be a mother to me and I believe this has much to do with her confused sence of sexual identity along with many other things related to seperation from God. Anyways... I'm not writing my testiomony lolz.... I am doing my best to love her the way God would have me to love her and to maintain a spirit of forgivness, though this is not always easy, it can be no other way because God says it must be this way and He definitly helps me out when I struggle and I pray. My mothers beliefs about "god" are a sum of things she has picked and choosed from different religions and things she wishes "god" would be. She believes her homosexual lifestyle and everythings she does is righteous and is not "sin" at all. She doesn't believe the bible... ect. Anyways, Im not trying to vent here.... only wanted to say that you're videos have helped me alot... and hopefully, in effect, help my mother out too. My beliefs come up in conversation and when they do she doesn't want to hear them. I tell her that one of us MUST be wrong since our beliefs contradict each other. Well, you're videos help me speak to her. I want to say again that it was very difficult growing up within a homosexual family and that it is truly by the gace and the majisty of God that He alone has shaped me into who He wants me to be. If He took me and made me into someone special... come one... God can do anything! I know this has been extra extra supa dupa long and prolly only one person will ever read this but...
Thank yooooou! All of yoooou!!! : )
Thank You.
I just wanted to thank you guys for for this video. It was an unbelievable blessing to me, especially Question 10. I knew in my heart of heart that I was delivered from bisexuality but lately have been sad and confused and feeling hopeless because the thoughts and temptation would still evade my mind. I am so encouraged now, and so happy that this video has defeated the lie satan was tryna sell me about how things would never really change.
Growing up as a Christian and in the Church all my life, I was really opposed to Homo/Bi-sexuality in all its forms, but as I went through high school, I somehow amassed a high number of homo/bi-sexual friends, at least 2 being my real tight homies. At first, I really tried to talk to them and make them see that it was a real road-block in their path to Heaven. But it's like Larrell said in the video, when it boils down to it, people rub off on one another and either you change them or they change you. And true to the Word, you should not sin, but not only that, you should not approve of the sinning that others do. Well I clearly forgot that memo 'cause after a while, I stopped trying to witness to them and I would listen to stories of their encounters, during sleepovers we would sleep in the same beds together, I wouldn't be against them dating etc. I basically just forgot God's stance on it. Eventually I began to find the lifestyle interesting, cool/intriguing but because I knew it was an abomination before God, I didn't go out and pursue it. Still, I committed it in my heart and thoughts and even more disturbing, I would have homosexual encounters in my sleep. But I thank God so much that He opened my eyes and saved my Spirit from flames! I'm no longer a slave to that sin because it's truly nailed to the Cross. Thank you...now I can share this vid with friends who ares still in that sin and need Gospel answers.
Maaan God Bless You Guys so much. I can't tell you how much an Inspiration you all are. Since I started following on youtube last year, your testimonies, poetry, dance, podcasts, everything...and offcourse the Grace and Power of our Amazing God, has helped me reach a new dimension in my walk with and Faith in God.
I already copped my Ex-Diva Shirt
[and got it shipped all the way to the UK! LOL!] ...Yes thats how much you guys are taking the world by storm!! Chosen Generation!! Need the Ex-Bisexual shirt now but I've got a few friends who are wanting some shirts as well, so soon as we know numbers etc for sure, we'll be placing orders!
May God continue to keep you all and enlarge your territory for His Glory!
So much Love...xxx
I just watched the actual
I just watched the actual video of the "Homosexual Questions Uncovered" and WOW! Praise God for that powerful discussion and the testimonies! I had seen Larrel's testimony and Jackie's testimony and they had struck me and God has used them to point me to issues that had happened in my past. Even though I would never have said before, I did struggle for a long time with my sexuality and even though it wasn't an overt thing, it was a deep and private battle. I kept up the appearance that everything was cool and I was perceived to be this "goody two shoes" - but that was the worst part! the double life was killing me! It wasnt until i came to Christ and repented of my sins that God uncovered the wounds and the things in the past that had messed me up concerning my sexuality. I always fronted that i was heterosexual and only had feelings for men, but that didn't stop the thoughts and the fantasy of being with other women. It was killing me... cuz i knew it was wrong and i knew it wasnt supposed to be like that, but i didnt know how those feelings got there and i didnt know that there was any way out.
The first time i realised what had happened to me in the past was the cause of my state of mind was the video that you guys came out with that discussed bisexuality. and it was when someone (i cant remember her name) mentioned how she had received oral sex at 5 years old that i realised that "man, this is a problem and oh my goodness, i had an sexual experiences/a number of experiences like that as a child".
Satan is out messing kids' minds up with these perverse/child molesting spirits cuz he knows its a way to destroy their destinies and cause them not to trust in the love of God - we need to pray against all satanic devices and such powers to be pulled down in Jesus name (2 corinthians 10:3-6).
So I praise God that Larrel spoke up and said that she had been sexually abused/molested by someone of the same sex when she was younger cuz that was what happened to me. It was my cousin and I remember afterwards feeling the hurt and the shame but also then just wanting more from her, cuz I had been opened up to that sensation. So when she spent the night over at my house I was reaching out and touching her and wanting to fulfil this sexual desire. I was probably 6 years old or something. It never occurred to me that it would have damaging effects on my emotional and mental health. Cuz I felt emotionally dependent on her (and subsequently on alot of women) cuz she had stimulated that passionate desire in me. God is so right when he says we should flee sexual immorality cuz its more than just a physical thing it encompasses every connection there is - spiritual, emotional, mental.
WOW, God is powerful!!! Mighty to save, y'all!! So just keep trusting Him and He will deliver you!
I always knew I could relate to the bisexual/homosexual testimonies but i never knew the root cause of why the Holy Spirit wanted me to seek Him on that. and actually for a long time i blamed myself and tried to fill in the gap by saying that it was all on me and it was all my fault and i was accountable for the sin that someone else did to me. Now, I realise that was just the devil capitalising on my shame... but wait till he gets it though - People are gonna be delivered thru my testimony and all our testimonies, in Jesus name!!!
It's also what I went thru when other people later on in my childhood molested and touched me up and stuff. Now i realise that is was the devil's tactic to make me feel like i was still the culprit and make me wonder how I was going to get myself out of the mess. Thanks be to Jesus Christ!!! Man, I'm gonna go hard for the Lord!!! He is so worthy of all my praise and adoration! Praise Jesus! Thank you, Lord for saving me!!!
One passage that stuck from a young age was Matthew 18:6-7 and if you read it, it just reveals God's heart and that He really is a just God. That passage has brought me SO much reassurance and comfort in just confronting these issues. PRAISE GOD!!!
God bless you all and i pray He continues to uphold and encourage you to speak up in this hour, in Jesus name, Amen!
Homosexual Questions Uncovered Comment
Hi Katherine,
I stumbled across this website and was scanning through, when I saw the Preview of the Homosexual Questions Uncovered and I decided to read the comments made by people, including yourself.
Naively, beforehand I did not think that this podcast would be relevant to me; but however, carried on reading comments and testimonies of people who had watched the whole thing.
Having read half-way thorugh your comment, I had a realisation of the relevance all of this had to my lfie and my past sins. I have now admitted to myself and my God my sins of the past and have taken responsibility for my actions. I am thankful to God as he continues to surprise me and guide my through my life as he wishes. I thank you for sharing your story and making your voice heard on this website because it has helped me far more than you will ever know...God has connect with me through you, on a level that I have not yet explored.
I am still very early on in my walk with Christ and I am learning everyday why it is so important to know yourself and your relationship with God and that you must work hard to maintain a strong bond with him.
Your words were founded!
"People are gonna be delivered thru my testimony and all our testimonies, in Jesus name!!!"
Thank God and Amen to that!
Hope you are well.
May God Richly Bless You,
Shanice
WOW!!! PRAISE GOD!! I am
WOW!!! PRAISE GOD!! I am nearly in tears... WOW GOD IS AWESOME!!! I am soooooooooooooo humbled by your testimony, Shanice and everyone's testimonies!!! God bless you all! GOD IS SO WONDERFUL! I am only seeing your reply today for the first time... God bless you! Your courage to confront your own sins and to trust God gives me courage to always do the same and always TESTIFY to HIS glory! It makes it all the more worthwhile just hearing how God has delivered us! Your deliverance has given me joy.. my heart is so warmed by what God has done in your life, so thank God He gave you the power to testify! God bless you and I pray that He continues to see you through till Jesus comes back again for His Bride, in Jesus name. Also, shout out to La-Aja - thankyou for encouraging me to testify on the site! God bless you! It's awesome doing the work of the Lord! This is so amazing!!!!! A true blessing
PRAISE GOD FOR HIS MERCY! God has said in Malachi 3:6 "For I am the LORD, I change not; therefore ye sons of Jacob are not consumed." How true! If not for God's love and His mercy, if not for His Grace, His Patience - if not for His Son - we would all have been utterly consumed by our sins and by our enemies and destroyed by God's Judgment. We have to realise the depth of God's love by looking at the depth of the CHOICE He made to send Jesus Christ to the cross instead of us, to shed His sinless blood and apply it to the mercyseat in Heaven. It is something that we'll finally realise in Heaven by God's grace! HIS LOVE. It is good to praise God and to trust Him as it says in psalm 107! It's amazing to think that each of us had a place in Jesus' heart when He chose to come down from Heaven, become a man, dwell among us and then take our punishment for all our sins on the cross. It makes me all the more aware of how jealous God is over us and how much He hates the sins that entangles us. WE ARE HIS. I love that! I love what the Bible says in James 4 and how it talks about the Holy Spirit being so jealous over us in v5! I love God's Word and His Righteousness and His holiness. If it wasn't for God's justice I would never have been delivered from my sins, but praise be to God for Jesus Christ!! Praise God that we are JUSTIFIED by faith in Christ Jesus!! Halleluyah!
We need to open our eyes and see how worthy He is. How perfect He is and how poor, wretched and blind we are that we should even behold His presence, that He would come and rescue us, that He would come and die for us, that we should even come into the presence of the King of Kings and the Most High God. ALL because of His great love - we should be called sons and daughters of the Most High God!!! I see what John saw in 1 John 3. He is glorious!!!!! I am looking forward so much to when He comes back for His Church!!! It will be amazing!
1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 offers some words of comfort to His people as we look forward to when He comes for His Bride:
"But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him. For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep. For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first:Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord. Wherefore comfort one another with these words."
God bless you and keep you all in His love in the coming days! Be WISE and Stay STRONG in the Lord, Church. Jesus is with us!!!
ALL SIN, DEATH AND ALL OF HELL - every demon, every principality, every power of witchcraft and the occult, every deception and every lie - ARE UNDER OUR FEET BECAUSE OF JESUS CHRIST!!! HALLELUYAH!
The devil ain't got nothin' on us!!
"Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves." Matthew 10:16
"Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world. Amen." Matthew 28:19-20 (emphasis added - He said it! He is with us always! Amen and Amen!)
Praise God, Praise Jesus, Praise the Holy Spirit!!!! FOREVER AND EVER AND EVER!!!
Love,
Katherine
19yrs
Broke The Silence
I just wanted to say to all of the young women and men that have shared their testimonies here, TO GOD BE THE GLORY and THANK YOU. I'm just turned 20 years old on June 14, and decided that the silence needed to be broken in my community and those surrounding me in school and anywhere else. I decided I would not take the burden of the past 16 years of my life over into this next phase of my life. I praise God for your strength and boldness!! After watching your videos and hearing the different testimonies, I see that I was not alone in where I was(bound to homosexuality and masturbation), neither am I alone in where I am now(free and delivered from sin)!!! After watching the videos I was able to talk to my mother and my pastor about the life I was living right under their nose and let them know that its real and God's ability and power to deliver is just as real!!! Although I was as scared as scared could be, I was able to go through with tell them. Since then, I have begun a ministry called "Young Women Promoting Purpose" and also have begun planning my first seminar this summer!!! Telling my parents and my pastor and planning the seminar has all been done in a matter of weeks!!!
I'm just grateful for men and women of God like you all!! I appreciate and love you all for your strength!!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE continue to keep up the work for the Kingdom!
THANK YOU
yo, I really just wanted to say thank you all soooo much for your testimonies. they really blessed my life and let me know that i wasn't alone. it really helps to hear someone who has been delivered say that you CAN BE DELIVERED LOL. You have really helped me in a really crucial time in my life and ministry. Because i have always felt horrible for ministering in song to people and thinking in my heart that i could never make it out of this thing. but because there was no one to talk to, or to talk to me for that matter i continued in my sin. this has really changed my life so once again i say thank you from the bottom of my heart.
cj
I would love to have a
I would love to have a conversation with one of these people. haha.
Thank You.
Thank you guys so much for this. Satan has really been pulling on my life since I was very young. I am now 18 years old. This battle for my soul has been a huge roller coaster in my life. Homosexuality is something most churches avoid talking about. So thank you guys so much for these videos. This is the encouragement I needed tonight.
-Evan Scott
18 - Male - MN
Bless all of you!
Thank you all for your bold statements and most importantly your biblically accuracy. I never dealt with that sin , just was beginning to be frustrated with the excuses people will make about thier sin. I believe Christ can deliver anyone from anything , thanks for yall spirit, can really since the humility.
hi my name is tatyana im 15
hi my name is tatyana
im 15 . nd i qoinq throu some thinq in my life
i been datinq this qirl for over a yea i want to .. stop beqin homo.sexual ..but now like my moms an aceptinq it i know im hurtinq her as well as my self. i love qoinq to church im even in the chouir but at the same time i want to make everybody happy i love the person that im with but i dont kno how to really talk to anybody .. we have so many judqemental people around here ...i have nobody to really run to .. i NEED HELP
Hi Tatyana, I'm Kayla,
Hi Tatyana,
I'm Kayla, from the video. I just read your comment and wasn't sure if anyone had gotten back to you. If someone hasn't, or even if someone has, and you still want to talk, you can hit me up on email at kaylag@p4cm.com
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Stay strong sis,
Kayla
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